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What Happened to You?
Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing
This book is for anyone who has been on a learning journey to understand how trauma impacts our biology and our behavior. This is a current explanation of the neurobiology told through stories and examples. Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey have worked together for decades to deepen and broaden their understanding of trauma. Dr. Perry expertly and carefully explains the science in a very tangible and applicable way.
Author: Bruce D. Perry, MD, PhD and Oprah Winfrey
Year of Publishing: 2021
Number of Pages: 291
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Reviews
jmczech14 (verified owner) –
It’s written as transcripts of conversations between Oprah and Dr. Perry.
nnppnn (verified owner) –
I absolutely loved this book! Very informative, well written, and eye opening. This book made me learn so much more about how my upbringing and past has shaped me to be who I am today. Highly recommend!
[email protected] (verified owner) –
This book should be required for anyone who works with children.
Firechild94 (verified owner) –
It has a lot of great information. I honestly struggled because for me it’s hard to read conversations.
Jesie Cordero (verified owner) –
Nice, well written book.
Jesie Cordero (verified owner) –
Nice, well written, easy to read book.
sebastian (verified owner) –
This is an excellent read on the effects of trauma on the psychological make-up of a human being’s developmental process. It is packed with valuable information and insights on hidden circumstances that contribute to the formation of the individual. Not only it helped me understand myself at a deeper level, but also created a space of tolerance and acceptance of my fellow-human’s shortcomings. Highly recommended.
Jezebelle Case (verified owner) –
This book was so insightful with question and answer dialogue that really focused on real life scenarios of trauma. Great insight into the healing and work that can be done to not be stuck in such trauma.
Savanna Rilatos (verified owner) –
I really needed this book, it reframed the way i talk to myself and think about my life and experiences.
Julie VanDeHey (verified owner) –
I will happily read anything that Bruce Perry is involved in. He again delivers on thought provoking brutiful work.
christinalynnhead (verified owner) –
This book was more than what I was expecting and in a great way. The dialog between the conversations was so informal. Being aware of trauma is huge and this helped me look at my own trauma in a different perspective as well as thoughts on navigation on moving forward digging through it. Great book!
Angela Graves (verified owner) –
Wow, very much recommend this for trauma survivors
AmyB (verified owner) –
The transcript writing of the text was different than expected and not preferred, but Bruce Perry’s expertise and accessibility is worth the read.
nunnj (verified owner) –
Loved this vook….engaging conversation that makes you think about how trauma effects people around us!
Amber (verified owner) –
Helps you put together the pieces of your history and apply the information for a better today, enlightening.
CoachNicole (verified owner) –
This is a MUST read for coaches, clinicians, educators, leaders, and anyone interested in creating connections. The dialogue style of the book makes it easy to read and eye-opening from the very first page.
ashleyjohnsonbend (verified owner) –
one of the best books to process through trauma.
Craig Jacobson (verified owner) –
This book helped transform the national conversation (literally) around trauma!
pauljohnsonbend (verified owner) –
A must read, for everyone. Period.
nonirose (verified owner) –
This book is great if you are wanting to learn more about trauma and as an addition to psychology classes. However, for self-help, it’s not that type of book. There is no coping, how to break the pattern, or anything that can help the reader who seeks healing. It was interesting and hurt my heart hearing about Oprah’s upbringing. She is a beautiful lady and been through so much. Maybe a sequel will be coming forth with the self-help we were hoping for in this edition.
Melissa Sapp (verified owner) –
An eye opening read
krislnelson (verified owner) –
Such an important shift in the way we think! Insight from thirty years of experience and stories from so many really highlight how considering what happened helps change the conversation to figuring out where people are coming from so they can work to find ways to move forward. Well organized and meaningful information.
Jovanna Leon (verified owner) –
A well written informative book about the impacts trauma has on a individual. Would highly recommend this book to others.
htramnn (verified owner) –
I listened to this book on audio and loved the conversational style of the book. I love that I can have the physical book to read again in small sections and really digest it. Thank you!
Jill Burch (verified owner) –
It is a great read!
MCampos (verified owner) –
Excellent explanation regarding how trauma affects our brain.
Jesu Rodriguez (verified owner) –
As soon I received this book started to reading that night, it was so hard to stop reading, can’t wait to finish it and be able to help my father.
janelledewilde (verified owner) –
This book is insightful and in alignment with Bruce Perry’s work with trauma.
justareader (verified owner) –
A friend recommended this book and I am so glad she did. It really helped me see how what I saw as a normal childhood was actually very traumatic.
dawnmgeoppinger (verified owner) –
This book can be helpful for anyone who is interested in learning more about trauma and it’s impact on the mind and body. The book can be repetitive at times (it’s built on “conversations.”); however the conversational style makes it easy to read and accessible. Offers some practical advice on how to heal from trauma – hope that recovery is possible.
Michelle Hankes (verified owner) –
I work with people who have experienced trauma. I couldn’t put this book down and it will help being more trauma-informed.
Linda Hayden (verified owner) –
Excellent book that walks you through how trauma affects a person from childhood to adulthood. Many examples of trauma issues and how the brain is processing.
C (verified owner) –
Helpful and informative information however difficult to read in the format of a conversation.
Lindsay Eggleston (verified owner) –
Very insightful relatable book. Offer insight, validation and tools to regain your life after trauma
Lovetoread53 (verified owner) –
This book was very enlightening as to how individual we are in experiences and trauma and how much it how little we are affected. I liked the interaction and questions between the authors.
Amanda Littke-Kellam (verified owner) –
Really excellent discussion of Dr. Perry’s groundbreaking work that shows the correlation between brain development and trauma. A must-read for all educators, school staff, or anyone who works with children!
Lilia Ornelas (verified owner) –
This book is wonderful. It really does explain in detail from a doctors perspective and also for someone who might not understand all those “doctor words” this book does a great job. I would recommend this book to anyone who is on their journey of trying to understand why they are the way they are.
Harley Girl (verified owner) –
Dr. Perry has so much insight. This book didn’t disappoint.
Janira (verified owner) –
This is a must read for anyone interested in learning more about trauma.
JenWintersteen (verified owner) –
Excellent read. Loved the conversation style. Very helpful in my work with children who have experienced trauma.
cdorrah (verified owner) –
Great addition to my library! Very readable. Thank you so much!
Vanessa (verified owner) –
“What Happened to You” is a poignant exploration of trauma and healing. Through personal anecdotes and scientific insights, the authors emphasize the importance of understanding one’s past to navigate a path toward resilience and emotional well-being. The book advocates for a compassionate approach to trauma, offering practical strategies for healing. Overall, it’s a thought-provoking guide that combines personal stories with professional expertise, delivering a powerful message of hope.
Sage Halvorson (verified owner) –
Interesting to read. I liked learning more about the origins of trauma.
Kelsey Taylor (verified owner) –
Love this book! Very well written.
kelli.conraads (verified owner) –
Awesome book! Great read with very important information.
mparmley (verified owner) –
This book is so powerful and educational for me personally as well as professionally. I highly recommend it!
Rebecca Johnson (verified owner) –
Very interesting book. Love all the different points of view.
tkwilson (verified owner) –
I love that she is expanding on what he discussed in her TedTalk, this doctor is amazing and fun to listen to
Mariah Peterson (verified owner) –
Loved this book! It was so insightful!
David Nestor (verified owner) –
I enjoyed this book quite a bit. Bruce Perry does another wonderful job of explaining and exploring how trauma impacts us as humans across the lifespan. This would be a great book for anyone looking to begin their journey or learning on trauma and its effects on people, communities, and society. If you like this one I would suggest his book “ the boy who was raised as a dog”.
stephvanhecke (verified owner) –
This is a wonderful perspective and affirming book for those who have suffered trauma or know someone who has.
Debbie Walker (verified owner) –
This is a must read informative intriguing book. Well written
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terriks (verified owner) –
I struggled a little with the format as a conversation between the two but important content
Anne Bernard (verified owner) –
Great book. A lot of useful information.
Billy Grounds (verified owner) –
A very insightful book. It is also very helpful for my professional career and the people I help.
Lindsay (verified owner) –
Great book.
mdoran (verified owner) –
Fascinating book on how early childhood trauma affects us our whole lives. Also, understanding that with the right support, you can heal from the trauma or support others who have experienced childhood trauma.
Eight (verified owner) –
Well written! A book to keep sharing with others.
Karen Wirth (verified owner) –
Important topic
SMohler (verified owner) –
This book has helped me to address my own childhood traumas, while also being empathetic to other’s experiences as well. Highly recommend!
fvehapi (verified owner) –
This book is transformational. Definitely recommend it!
hgall1012 (verified owner) –
Great book if you work with children!
[email protected] (verified owner) –
This is a must-read book! It reads like a conversation between Bruce and Oprah which makes it very digestible. Can’t recommend this book enough.
Lynda Grounds (verified owner) –
Solid book for the trauma informed line of work.
Danelle McKinley (verified owner) –
Just received currently reading. So far it’s a good book.
Jamie Willard (verified owner) –
A little repetitive but MAN was this compelling and helpful, no matter where you are emotionally. Super informative and easy to read.
Nichole Zamarripa (verified owner) –
It’s so good definitely was hard to put down. Finished it in a few days
Robyn Immoos (verified owner) –
Bruce Perry’s expertise in this field is absolutely mind blowing. There is so much information that you almost need to read it twice just to catch it all. Just note that most of the book is in a conversation format. It is worth the read.
K.Jlassi (verified owner) –
What Happened To You is a great interplay between science and storytelling. It was a hard read for sure – I needed to read it in segments since certain parts reminded me of my own past. I was able to analyze my own trauma and identify where certain attributes stemmed from. Ultimately, I was able to reach a deeper understanding of myself and a greater empathy towards those who contributed towards my past.
pearlysmile (verified owner) –
It is a transcript of the conversations between Oprah and Dr. Perry. It was easy to follow and I would recommend it to anyone who feels that they are not reacting correctly to all situations. We are a product of our environments as children.
Kiri Watson (verified owner) –
This book is a must read. It dives into deep understanding of trauma and the effect it has on our behaviour and the way the brain adapts to trauma. It reveals important information that could help decode some relational issues and above all helps acknowledging how our perception of an experience can mark us strongly. Really do reccomend
AnnomousReader (verified owner) –
This book was fascinating and gave me much to ponder on.
Preslie Webb (verified owner) –
I was able to read this with the ebook and it did not disappoint. Highly recommend.
Sara Eberly (verified owner) –
A good book to have in the office to help people understand trauma and how it continues to impact them and others.
Debra Dreiling (verified owner) –
Great Book. Everyone should understand the WHY of people!
ClauVasq (verified owner) –
So excited to read this book and help heal a little more.
TayM (verified owner) –
A must read.
Meowmom (verified owner) –
conversations between Oprah and Dr. Perry.
kkrato (verified owner) –
Highly recommend. Very helpful and informative
Jennifer Monk (verified owner) –
This was a truly insightful book I have read it and plan to reread it . Learning about trauma and how it has affected me is eye opening for me. Easy to understand book. I love it
Dulce Guillen (verified owner) –
Such an inspiring book, it feels like you are part of the conversation.
keysha (verified owner) –
Great book. Easy to read. Makes me feel better about being broken. Not what’s wrong but what happened? Makes perfect sense.
Lisa Mathis (verified owner) –
This book is incredible and offers a perspective of how we as humans look at others lives and how they have been affected. Trauma literally rewires out brains and it is not required to be a BIG “T” verse little “t” to affect out neurobiology. Great read and a must for those wanting to understand how our lives affect out brains, bodies and future.
Kenzie Kihs (verified owner) –
Really gives you a new look at the effects of trauma and how we can better understand as a society how to support one another.
avaa (verified owner) –
Excellent book for those who work with children and young adults but really for all of us
ttmartin76 (verified owner) –
good information regarding dealing with trauma both external and internal.
Danielle Donnell (verified owner) –
This book has changed how I look at trauma and how past trauma is reflected in our day to day. Not only as someone who works in an elementary school but also for myself and all others. I think all people should read this book to try and truly understand that with compassion and a sense of awareness we can assist others in helping them heal past hurts with acknowledging them.
Jennifer Phillips (verified owner) –
Great book, helped me be able to connect with my students better.
Amanda Dion (verified owner) –
Every person would benefit from reading this book.
Tristan Vidales (verified owner) –
Great book!!
Tristan Vidales (verified owner) –
Amazing book 📖 👌
Sylvia Kitterman (verified owner) –
Very insightful book. Helped me out a lot. Thank you.
[email protected] (verified owner) –
Very helpful for our work with children in the foster care system. Understanding not only them but also the parents. Seeing the impact of trauma on children’s development is sobering. Also prevents making sweeping judgments of people without knowing their history.
DeAnna Pickett (verified owner) –
Highly recommend this book to everyone over the age of 18!
Zoe Zamora (verified owner) –
I’ve heard nothing but good things about this book. Can’t wait to read it!
[email protected] (verified owner) –
Very good read, helped out with a lot
cduarte (verified owner) –
I’m grateful for this informative and transformative read!! I learned a lot of the impacts of trauma and was able to heal through the process.
Alexander Vettorello (verified owner) –
Absolutely necessary read if you want to work with kids dealing with trauma and other adversity’s.
Bee Parsons (verified owner) –
I started this one and honestly couldn’t get into it. I don’t think it was the book itself. It was me.
Brittani Rodriguez-Olmos (verified owner) –
Great for people who work with children!
rebecca Chavolla (verified owner) –
Very informative book, gives extensive information and easy to understand
Melinda Im (verified owner) –
Wonderful book! Great for those who have endured trauma, going through trauma and those who are moving forward on how to understand and cope.
Maria Rodarte (verified owner) –
good book
ashleyfaye (verified owner) –
This book is fantastic and I highly recommend for any educators or professionals working with children and teens in any setting. I would even recommend it to anyone working around any people since it explains a compassionate view of working around people with trauma. This has changed the way I view my students and people in general. It explains the brain and trauma response in an easy to understand way for non-psychology folks and teaches readers to have a new view for folks who have experienced trauma and how to have a compassionate mindset towards everyone no matter what their background is. It is written in a conversation form as if one was there listening to two people’s conversations. It is very easy to read and understand. I would totally read this again and recommend it to anyone!
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